from the second we are born we are shaped by everything around us

they world puts its mark on us and in return we out ours on it

this goes in an endless spiral

where nobody can tell you when it will end or who or what set it into motion

it is well and truly out of our hands

so what is life but a deepening into the person we already are

in life you get to know the person you are

as in,

learning what works for you

seeing what beauty is to you

realizing what you need

and in the end of this if you can

when you have seen these truths about you

about how you percieve reality

there is an acceptance

that this is what i am,

it does not matter why you are how you are

because it is not possible for you to change it

so dont put your energy there

nobody can tell you where this chain of events started that has shaped you into what you are

this insight is where suffering ends

suffering is the struggle against what is,

so paradoxically

if you are struggling not to struggle against what is…

you’ll be playing this game for a long time

so relax,

you are doing excactly what you are supposed to be doing

because there is nothing else you could be doing,

and after that,

the need for things to be any different than they are, ceases,

and you can raise your eyes and look out at the world,

and enjoy it.